Hope at the Assisted Conception Unit
“Your ovaries are lovely.” Not something I’ve ever been told before, but the words wrapped themselves around me like a blanket as I sat nervously while the nurse reviewed the images from my ultrasound....
View ArticlePreparing for IVF – First steps (Medication)
Preparing to have IVF abroad is life on a knife edge, or rather, a needle point. There are so many different aspects to organise (medication, flights, accommodation, scans) and so many things that can...
View ArticleInformation: Finding the cheapest way to have IVF
Forgive a brief interruption to the narrative flow of this memoir once again. I felt that it might be helpful to share some information. I recently posted on a fertility forum asking if there was...
View ArticlePreparing for IVF – Second scan (and all systems are go!)
I arrived early for my second scan. I recognised the auburn-haired nurse I’d seen the day before and she showed me into the scanning room straight away. This time, a friendly-faced male doctor with a...
View ArticleFrustration and fear at the Early Pregnancy Unit
After more than an hour of nervous waiting room magazine-flicking, it’s time for my ultrasound. I bombard the sonographer with dozens of questions the instant my turn arrives. The two main things I’m...
View ArticleBeyond the twelve week scan
Sunday 17th March was the date set for my twelve week scan. I’d been scanned at almost 9 weeks but it seemed like an eternity to wait. Three months was a real milestone – if I could only get through...
View ArticleTransfer to neonatal intensive care
A couple of hours after holding my son for the first time I returned to the SCBU, longing to feel his little body pressed against me. It would be over a week before I would be able to hold him again....
View ArticleA reponse to the Mail’s article about the UK’s NHS-funded sperm bank
The Mail on Sunday newspaper sank to a new low today. It skilfully managed to combine all three of its notorious characteristics – bias, bigotry and blatant ignorance – in a single article. The...
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